Follow God's Will not tradition. Getting caught in tradition often leads you away from your true calling.
Do what you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, and the God of peace will be with you. Philippians 4:9
For where envy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every kind of evil. (James 3:16 HCSB)
Who is wise and has understanding among you? He should show his works by good conduct with wisdom’s gentleness. (James 3:13 HCSB)